LIGHTLY

8:00:00 AM


Detachment. If there is one thing I can advise anyone on how to take things lightly, including pain, it's detachment. The past two years has been very enlightening for me, but over the course of hardships I have attained the ability to detach adequately. Some people, learning the curse of being overly attached, have gone extreme by vowing to detach from anything with the potential of hurting a person at some point, including love. These are the people who convince themselves that they are no longer able to trust anyone, or that expectation is the source of disappointment and thus do not expect at all, or the like. In my opinion these people are misguided. Because when they tire themselves by constantly brooding and in the end find themselves lonelier than ever, they start giving in to a little attachment, and a little more, and a little more, and when you know it they are back to where they're started, indulged by the delights of attachments. And the cycle goes on. And then there's a point where they realise that no attachment goes unhurt, and their attachments are soon coloured with worry and anxiety of what may go wrong.

I found a way that works for me, I successfully learned to attach and detach in the same time. Ugh, I attempted to provide an explanation as to how I managed to do that (you should see the gazillion previous drafts of this post) but I failed. I'll share you the how once I figure out how to explain it, but the point is it is possible to attach and detach in the same time. This has done me wonders in respect of how I live this life. I wish more people could embrace this like I do.




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  1. Super chic look
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  2. such a perfect light (!) and breezy spring look. :)

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  3. This look is so soft and romantic !
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  4. You look marvelous. Love that cute skirt. Detach and attach at the same time um. Yes I would love to read more about that :)

    xx Mira

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  5. I love the lightness of your outfit. Lovely post. Life is just full of lessons for all of us.
    /Madison

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  6. you look flawless ci! <3
    hope i can meet you when im back! miss you!

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  7. Hi Dear..
    you're so beautiful.. and thanks for your greeting..

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  8. Thoughtful post. I certainly feel that I wouldn't be able to trust anyone anymore when somebody has failed me, but hey life goes on and not all the people are the same!
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  9. what a deep and thoughtful post.
    and still, you look awesome

    keep fab and visit mine,
    Miss Aa

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  10. You look absolutely pretty doll! Love the pleated skirt so much <3

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  11. What a lovely skirt! You're rocking the midi-skirt trend :)

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  12. Beautiful as usual ci:)

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  13. Such a sweet, romantic attire, fits you perfectly well. You look simply charming and beautiful, indeed. Those photographs are adorable!
    Wish you a great week ahead!

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  14. that's so cute honey!

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  15. wow! I really like the textures involved! The colors are super cute too~ so spring-y! :)

    I'm glad you found a way to be detached & attached. It's good to get a balance of both. It's definitely important not to let the world get to you, but relationships are too important to be let go!

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  16. I really love your skirt and sandals dear! You are super cute ♥

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  17. this is one inspiring post, Wynne !

    I think i am one of those who lost faith in attachment. Now that i read your post, i kinda get what you are trying to say, well not 100 % actually! hehehe, but it's quite an eye opening situation.

    p.s: this is a cute look, i bet you know it already. :)

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thanks for the thoughts!

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